Clarity! Clarity! Clarity!
Are you clear on the essential qualities that you want the man of your dreams to have?
I wrote the word three times for emphasis. It is paramount to be crystal clear when it comes to finding and attracting love into your life.
Here is one of my favourite quotes on clarity:
“Clarity is Power.
The more clear you are about what it is you want,
the more your brain knows how to get there”
Have you ever driven to a place without a road map of how to get there? I am sure you can identify with this because by the time you get to your destination, you would have made a few wrong turns, wasted time and got lost along the way. Although you eventually get to your destination, you will be tired and frustrated and possibly uninterested.
Aside from taking too long to get to your destination, without a clear map you also run into obstacles along the way such as hesitation and doubt and you will be stressed out.
This is very similar to not having a clear idea of what qualities you are looking for in the man of your dreams. Having a clear idea of what you desire in the man of your dreams makes recognition of the man easier. When he makes his appearance, the chances of recognising him is slim if you don’t know what it is you are looking for.
I believe there is a recognition factor that comes to play when you come in contact with the man that you would want to spend the rest of your life with. You need to know what you want well before he shows up.
3 reasons why it is essential for you to be crystal clear about what it is you are looking for in the man of your dreams:
- Heaven or the Universe will present to you what you want. Whatever it is that you desire will be reflected back to you so if you desire a trust worthy man, that is what you will be presented with and vice versa.
- The experience of meeting and dating the man will be an exciting and enjoyable experience because you are prepared and somewhat know what to expect. You look forward to attracting the man.
- You cut the chase and save yourself some time because you already have an idea of what you want. As such, you don’t have to spend a long time dating.
Wishing you clarity on your journey of attracting love into your life.